Our cautious child.
He's always been slower to try new things than the others, and the older he grew, the more cautious he became. Refusing to try new foods (even foods that he once ate daily) until he was living on a diet of flavorless cardboard type foods (like cheerios and dry toast).
He stopped wanting to jump in the pool, though he used to do it all the time. Even refusing to ride the small roller coaster at Disney.
Until recently.
One day, he began to emerge from his cave of cautiousness, taking one tiny step at a time - "Mom, can I have butter on my toast?"
"I'll try some of that Chinese food."
"I'll come with you to ride the roller coaster."
"I really want to do the Flow Rider on our Thanksgiving cruise."
And you know what? He was awesome. Even the lifeguard stood up and clapped for him.
You will get out.
Maybe not on your call, but you will get out.
Your kiddo will come around in time.
It's up to you to always offer the new foods/opportunities/experiences, but be ok with it if your child turns them down.
One day, they just might surprise you.
And it will make your mama heart soar.
